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tipsy talk; MANIFESTING

My life starts to move forward! 

1st, resubscribe to my Spotify account!!!! there was a funny promise that I made to myself, I'm not going to use premium Spotify unless I pay it from my own sweat salary. It may sound like nothing but I do manifest a lot of those little things.. eaaa!

My husband had a single Spotify premium for himself although he did offer me to change to Duo for us... I said no, I'm fine with youtube and Netflix ( Of course I'm lying!!!) LOL

I'm that crazy manifesting kinda person! Fast forward to 2 years later, I asked him to unsubscribe his premium so that I can pay for us! 

2nd, Do Manicure, Pedicure, and Massage at a Salon! It may only cost 50-80€ but won't do it unless it came from my bank account! Well my husband transfers monthly money but still, this stubborn bitch thinks "IT AIN'T MA sweat MONEY" 

3. Buy a new wallet! It's my own tradition by the way... I only change my wallet after the 1st salary of my new job. 

Bought it in Malaysia in early December 2019, from the 1st salary of my previous job, then went to Germany and was unemployed for 2 years.


I may sound aggressively hateful towards the unemployment status and naive but i chose this way of life.

I run on my own timeline.





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